Tuesday, August 19, 2014

How I Spent My Summer Vacation... 2014

     Only seems appropriate to call this post after my favorite Tiny Toons Adventure movies :) We had a lot of fun. Rather than tell you I thought I'd share some of my favorite moments with you.

Hayley and James watching Olaf sing "In Summer"
The girls after their dance recital

James's first time in Blue Springs... He LOVED it!!
Pictures from Wet N Wild

4th of July

Bowling

Mommy and Baby James
Went to De Leon Springs

Daytona Beach Timeshare

Hung out with Alani before she moved to Texas

    As you can see it was a fun summer. I am happy to report that no one had to go to the ER, so hopefully that tradition will stay broken. :)  James loves the water. No doubt he is a water baby :) Jim brought his X-Box to the hotel, of course, but he also spent time with the family :) Kevin and I both agree that the timeshare, hanging out with cousins, and going to the beach is the best part of our summer vacation. Can't wait to do it again next year!!

Saturday, May 3, 2014

Vasculitis Awareness

     May is Vasculitis Awareness month so I will be sharing my story of my cousin, Emma.  She is one of my best friends and have known her my whole life.

     As a child she was very healthy and showed no signs of vasculitis until a few years ago.  She first noticed pain in her leg.  She went to dozens of doctor appointments but they weren't able to give her a reason for her pain.  Then a doctor looked at the nerves in her leg and realized it was triple the size, if not bigger, than it was supposed to be.  The doctors took a biopsy of the nerve in her left leg and soon after she was diagnosed with vasculitis.

     What is vasculitis?  Vasculitis is an autoimmune disease in which the body's immune system attacks its own blood vessels, arteries and veins.  Vasculitis causes poor blood flow to the tissues throughout the body, such as the lungs, nerves, and skin.

     After Emma was diagnosed the doctors started her treatment which consisted of chemotherapy and steroids.  As a result her hair thinned out, she gained weight, and she had to watch her blood sugar.

     She tried to not let this disease ruin her life, however.  She married her fiance, had a big wedding reception, worked full-time, and flew to mine and Jim's wedding.  However, as time goes on she is slowly realizing that she can't pretend that this disease isn't affecting her life.

     Emma has nerve pain every day.  She has numbness in her left leg and foot.  She can't stand for a long period of time, nor can she sit for a long period of time.  If she does she will have debilitating pain shooting through her left leg.

     Because of vasculitis, she eventually lost her job at the Sunoco where she worked as a cashier.  Often times they had to send her home because she was in pain, she got sick, or she had a doctor's appointment.  Towards the end she was so physically exhausted that she had to set three different alarm clocks and none of them would wake her.  Her boss knew she was struggling and felt bad for doing so, but she had to think of the company, so she fired Emma.

     Vasculitis also caused a rift in her marriage so she moved in with my husband and I last June.  Now Emma and Shawn are trying to fix their problems while she lives with her sister.  She is also trying to get disability from Social Security.

     No one knows what causes people to get vasculitis.  It's not genetic and there is no cure.  There's always a chance that this disease can flare up once again or spread to another part in the person's body.

     So don't judge what you don't understand.  People with vasculitis are in constant pain and experience nerve damage, numbing sensations throughout their body, arthritis, and poor blood flow.  It is a debilitating and life threatening disease.

Emma before her treatment
Emma at her wedding reception on steroids
Emma now wearing her leg brace

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Happy Birthday, James!

     So how did we celebrate?  We went to Grandma Anna and Pappa's, of course.  They're at their new house now so it accommodated the whole family, the Fishes, the Pankos, and the Adams's.

     We had hamburgers, hot dogs, macaroni salad, and baked beans.  It was very scrumptious.  After we ate the kids went swimming (the pool is heated) and then they went on an Easter Egg hunt. James had his private hunt with no candy inside the tiny cars, of course.

     He got to demolish his cake and he got a ton of presents.  Then three days later we celebrated his birthday on his actual birthday and invited Grandma Anna, Uncle Bobby, and Pappa over for lasagna, cake, and ice cream.  This time James fell asleep before we could sing to him and give him a piece of cake.  Today he had a slice and enjoyed it just the same.

     What can I say, I love my baby boy.  Now he is officially a year old! And I gotta tell you this year flew by quicker than the nine months I was pregnant!

     I love my little guys! I'm so thankful for them.  My favorite part of the day is when we're together as a family and I know Jim feels the same way! Love you, Baby James! Happy Birthday! So glad you're a part of our family. <3 Even Kevin said, "I didn't know I was going to love baby James this much!" You truly are a blessing, a miracle. You and Kevin both are <3

Kevin - 9 years

Grandma Anna made it <3

Jim decorated it, of course

Oliver egg hunting

Ethan and Kevin are recovering eggs

Kennedy - 12 years

James needed assistance

He LOVED his cake!

Stuffing his face

The cake has been destroyed

Family <3

Mother and birthday boy

Table full of presents

Surfer dude!

His private Easter Egg Hunt

Kennedy and James,
The oldest and youngest grandchild

Our Second Miracle Is A Year Old!!!!!

     A year ago today our baby was in the NICU.  Jim and I were unsure what was going to happen to our miracle.  We each cried, prayed, and watched the videos over and over again that Jim had taken of James on his phone...

     However, now our miracle is healthy and thriving! He is 32 inches long and 26 pounds! Which puts him in the ninety-seventh percentile for height and the seventy-fifth percentile for weight.  Yep, I think both of our boys will be taller than Jim and I.

     James's first word was "Dada" and his second word was "mama".  Now we're waiting to hear "bubba" for Kevin or maybe "kitty", as we have two cats.

     James loves to watch cartoons, his favorite movie is Turbo and he loves playing with his brother.  Seriously Kevin just has to look at him and James will smile. James loves toys that light up and make noise, he loves bath time, being read to, being sung to, tickles, kisses, and snuggled.

     He has grown so much in a year! It's wonderful and sad at the same time. It's wonderful because I love watching him grow, but sad because part of me misses him being my little baby.  I know I'm such a mom. :p

     I'm thankful for our second miracle.  He and his brother are my heart. I hope I am always worthy of being their mother.  <3

Shortly after baby James was born

James at 12 months old